{"id":3326,"date":"2014-01-21T08:06:01","date_gmt":"2014-01-21T08:06:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/wp3\/?p=3326"},"modified":"2014-01-21T08:06:01","modified_gmt":"2014-01-21T08:06:01","slug":"commentary-on-the-hadeeth-a-woman-may-be-married-for-four-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sunnionline.us\/english\/2014\/01\/21\/3326\/","title":{"rendered":"Commentary on the hadeeth, \u201cA woman may be married for four things\u2026\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"images\/stories\/muslims\/nikah.jpg\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: right; margin: 5px;\" \/>This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>  <!--more-->  <\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> \u201cA woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).\u201d <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There is nothing in this hadeeth to suggest that it is enjoined or encouraged to marry a woman for her beauty, lineage or wealth. Rather what it means is that these are things that people look for in marriage. Some look for a wife who is beautiful, some look for a wife who is descended from a noble family, some look for a wealthy wife, and some look for a wife who is religiously-committed \u2013 and this last is what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) encouraged when he said: \u201cSeek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).\u201d <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Sharh Muslim: <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The correct view concerning the meaning of this hadeeth is that the Prophet(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke of what people usually do, for they seek these four characteristics, the last of which in their view is religious commitment, but you who are seeking to follow the right way should seek the one who is religiously committed.\u00a0 This is not a command to do so\u2026 This hadeeth encourages us to seek the company of religiously-committed people in all things, because the one who keeps company with them will benefit from their good attitude and good ways, and will be safe from any bad influence from them. <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Al-Mubaarakfoori said in Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi: <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Al-Qaadi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: It is the people\u2019s custom to seek certain characteristics in women and to choose a wife for a certain quality. It befits those who are religiously-committed to base their actions on religious guidance, especially with regard to matters that are serious and have lasting effects. <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The scholars differed greatly as to the meaning of the words, \u201cMay your hands be rubbed with dust.\u201d Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Sharh Saheeh Muslim: <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The most correct view is that of the muhaqqiqeen, that this is a phrase which originally \u2018May you become poor\u2019, but the Arabs customarily used it in a sense other than its original meaning, so they would say things such as, \u2018May your hands be rubbed in the dust,\u2019 \u2018May Allaah kill him, how brave he is!\u2019, \u2018May he have no mother,\u2019 \u2018May you have no father,\u2019 \u2018May his mother be bereft of him,\u2019 \u2018Woe to his mother,\u2019 and so on which they would say in the context of denouncing, rebuking, criticizing, expressing outrage encouraging an action, or expressing admiration, and so on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Source: <em><strong>Islam Q&amp;A<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3326","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-c71-introduction-to-islam-muslims"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Commentary on the hadeeth, \u201cA woman may be married for four things\u2026\u201d - SunniOnline<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sunnionline.us\/english\/2014\/01\/21\/3326\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Commentary on the hadeeth, \u201cA woman may be married for four things\u2026\u201d - SunniOnline\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said:\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/sunnionline.us\/english\/2014\/01\/21\/3326\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"SunniOnline\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2014-01-21T08:06:01+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"majed\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"majed\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/sunnionline.us\\\/english\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/21\\\/3326\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/sunnionline.us\\\/english\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/21\\\/3326\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"majed\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/sunnionline.us\\\/english\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/26da0e970ff572e94f1b7d9009ab39be\"},\"headline\":\"Commentary on the hadeeth, \u201cA woman may be married for four things\u2026\u201d\",\"datePublished\":\"2014-01-21T08:06:01+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/sunnionline.us\\\/english\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/21\\\/3326\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":507,\"commentCount\":0,\"articleSection\":[\"Introduction to Islam &amp; 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