{"id":1472,"date":"2011-04-15T09:02:29","date_gmt":"2011-04-15T09:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/wp3\/?p=1472"},"modified":"2011-04-15T09:02:29","modified_gmt":"2011-04-15T09:02:29","slug":"why-prophet-muhammad-married-aisha-when-she-was-only-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sunnionline.us\/english\/2011\/04\/15\/1472\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Prophet Muhammad Married Aisha When She Was Only 9?"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"islam_1\"1-<\/strong>It was a divine inspiration<\/strong>: Before describing the rationale behind this married relation, let it be known that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) married Sayyida Aisha not of his own desire rather it was a Divine inspiration. Read the following Hadith;<\/div>\n

<\/p>\n

Narrated \u2018Aisha:
That the Prophet said to her, \u201cYou have been shown to me twice in my dream. I saw you pictured on a piece of silk and some-one said (to me). \u2018This is your wife.\u2019 When I uncovered the picture, I saw that it was yours. I said, \u2018If this is from Allah, it will be done.\u201d {Bukhari :: Volume 5 :: Book 58 :: Hadith 235}<\/p>\n

2-It was not out of his physical desires:<\/strong><\/p>\n

The Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) did not marry Sayyidah Aisha out of his physical desires. One need to note that for first 54 years of his life he had only one wife. His only wife till 50th year of his life was Sayyida Khadija. He spent his entire youth with her and she was a two time widowed woman, 15 years elder to him. For next four years his only wife was Sayyidah Sa\u2019uda.<\/p>\n

3-Age of Marriage in Old Ages:<\/strong><\/p>\n

One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.
Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.
Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those \u2018girls\u2019 infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly.<\/p>\n

4-Child Brides in Byzantine Empire:<\/strong><\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.roman-emperors.org\/aggiefran.htm
Visit this link to see how common were the child brides in the Byzantine Empire.This article clearly states;\u201dChild brides, whether Byzantines or foreign princesses, were the norm rather than the exception, especially from the late twelfth century\u201d.<\/p>\n

5-The Pagans of the Prophet\u2019s time:<\/strong><\/p>\n

The fact that it was a completely acceptable thing can also be seen from the response of the pagans at that time. No Muslim or even pagan objected to the marriage because it was widely practiced. And even until today in 3rd world countries (Muslims and non-Muslims), little girls as young as 9 or 10 do get married. Anyway, the reason no one objected was to the Prophet\u2019s marriage was:1-People used to have very short life-spans in Arabia. They used to live between 40 to 60 years maximum. So it was only normal and natural for girls to be married off at ages 9 or 10 or similar.2-Marriage for young girls was widely practiced among Arabs back then, and even today in many non-Muslim and Muslim countries<\/p>\n

6-Engagement with Jubair bin Mutim:<\/strong><\/p>\n

It ought also be noted that Sayyidah Aisha ( RA) was engaged to Jubayr son of Mut\u2019im before Prophet Muhammed (Peace be upon him. This indicates the age of marriage and engagement in Prophet\u2019s time. However, the engagement was later nullified by Jubayr\u2019s parents due to Abu Bakr (RA) embracing Islam.Doesn\u2019t this indicate there was nothing bad in marrying a 9 year girl at that time?She must have been even younger when she was engaged to Jubair<\/p>\n

7-Sayyidah Aisha was fit for marriage:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Furthermore as to the Holy Prophet\u2019s marriage with Sayyidah Aisha, something people will notice is that the completion of the marriage was done when Sayyidah Aisha was 9 years old, not when she was 6, and there is a reason for that. The reason why this happened is because Sayyidah Aisha had been through puberty by the age of 9, and in Islam a female who under-goes puberty is considered a lady and is fit for marriage.
If we read the hadiths, we find that right before Sayyidah Aisha got married off to the Holy Prophet that she was sick and not feeling too well:
Narrated Sayyidah Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became all right, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, \u201cBest wishes and Allah\u2019s Blessing and a good luck.\u201d Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah\u2019s Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.\u201d {Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234}
So as we can see, Sayyidah Aisha got ill and her body was going through some changes, indicating that she was going through her puberty.<\/p>\n

8-Sayyida Aisha never showed her displeasure:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Another striking thing to observe is that among hundreds of her narrations there is not even a single one showing her displeasure about this marriage. Hence, she had no problem with this relation. Infect it is manifest from several traditions that she loved the Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) too much and even felt some sort of jealousy when she found others around him. Does this not prove that she was extremely happy about this marriage? So, when she herself had no problem at all then what\u2019s the matter of concern for others?<\/p>\n

9-A 9-year old Thai girl gave birth:
<\/strong>
A 9 old girl can become a mother. If you don\u2019t believe me then see here is the proof;
The news item is from the New Straits Times, 10\/3\/2001.
In our world today, we still have people who marry very young girls. Why should we object to someone who married a 9-year old girl 1400 years ago, when we still practice it today? The girl above even gave birth at the age of 9!<\/p>\n

10-It was absolutely legal:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prophet Muhammad\u2019s marriage with Aisha was 100% legal and acceptable by all laws and Divine Religions. It is important to know that girls during the Biblical and Islamic days used to be married off at young ages when they either had their first periods, or their breasts start showing off. In other words, when they turn into \u201cwomen\u201d, then they get married off. It was quite different for men on the other hand, because physical power and the ability of living an independent life had always been and will always be a mandatory requirement for men to have in life. So men waited much longer than women in terms of getting married. The guy had to develop both his body and mind before he was ready for marriage. That is why you see girls as young as 9 or 10 were married to men as old as 30 or even older. The culture back then and in many of the world countries today (NON-MUSLIM ONES TOO) is quite different than what you live in today.And there is no divine law which is broken in marrying a girl of nine at any costs.<\/p>\n

11-Her parents never objected:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sayyidah Aisha\u2019s mother and the Muslim women back then were O.K with her marriage. It was part of the Arab custom and still is in many of the Muslim and non-Muslim countries today for girls to marry at a very young age. When a girl\u2019s body starts showing up (her breasts and her height and physical size), then she would be ready for marriage
The only reason why Sayyidah Aisha\u2019s father, Abu Baker Al Sidique, broke her engagement with Jober is because he was a non-Muslim. Later, a woman named Kholeah Bint Hakeem suggested for Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to marry Sayyidah Aisha, because the Prophet and Abu Baker became best friends. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) engaged Sayyidah Aisha for 3 years before he married her.<\/p>\n

12-Muslims never concealed it:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Had there been any bad thinking regarding this marriage in minds of the people at that time. Muslims would have tried there best to conceal at that time. But they didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

13-Refuting unjust Pagan views:<\/strong><\/p>\n

There were many baseless traditions in practice among the Arabs in those days. So Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was usually ordered by the Almighty ALLAH to refute such traditions through personal examples. Similar is the case of Prophet Muhammad\u2019s marriage with Umm al Momineen Aisha (R.A.)
1-For a bad omen, Arab considered Shawwal a month prohibited for marriage. Sayyidah A\u2019isha\u2019s betrothal and departure from her parent\u2019s house took place in Shawwal. This changed the ridiculous custom.
2-Another bad custom was that the Arabs did not give the hands of their daughters to those who they \u201ccalled\u201d their brothers (though were not actual brothers). This was the objection raised by Abu Bakr himself, when the Prophet (peace be upon him) made the proposal. The Prophet (Peace be upon him) then told him that a brother in faith was not an actual blood brother to be placed in the prohibited category.<\/p>\n

14-Great Wisdom behind this marriage:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) marriage with Sayyidah Aisha at that age was indeed a great blessings for all the Muslims ever since. Most of the matters related to cleanliness, married relationship and other household issues have been cleared due to her narrations. She lived a long time after the death of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and continued to teach the Ummah about matters of daily routine and great importance.<\/p>\n

15-What was Sayyidah Aisha famous for ??<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well what was her specialty? I ask the critics.
Was it beauty?
Was it wealth?
No it was religion!Thus proving the DIVINE LOGIC.
Arwa Bin Zubair says, \u201cI did not find anyone more proficient (than Aisha ) in the knowledge of the Holy Quran, the Commandments of Halal (lawful) and Haram (prohibited), Ilmul-Ansab and Arabic poetry. That is why, even senior companions of the Prophet used to consult Aisha in resolving intricate issues\u201d.
(Jala-ul-Afham by Ibn Qaiyem and Ibn Sa\u2019ad, Vol.2, p.26)
Also see this;
Abu Musa al-Ashari says: \u201cNever had we (the companions) any difficulty for the solution of which we approached Aisha and did not get some useful information from her\u201d. (Sirat-I-Aisha, on the authority of Trimidhi, pg. 163)
INDEED ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST!!!<\/p>\n

Source: Islam world\u2019s Greatest Religion!<\/em><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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